Time to move on from cheating ex

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Q . My husband of 26 years recently left me for a woman 20 years younger. His birthday is Oct. 30, 1962. When he left, he told me he also had an affair when our daughter (born Jan. 15, 2000, at 5:16 a.m.) was very young. Will I be able to find love again? How will this affect my daughter, who loves him very much? I was born Jan. 14, 1962, at 1:12 p.m.

A. Your comparison with your ex isn’t good, and it’s obvious this relationship will bring you ongoing sadness if you try to piece it back together.

Your daughter matches up nicely to her father and should be allowed to develop a relationship that encourages him to take care of her needs. Her chart indicates that your breakup will affect her ability to trust people emotionally if your ex doesn’t honor his commitment to her and if you don’t get past the hurt so you can fall in love with someone who treats you with the respect and love you deserve.

You will be in a high romantic cycle in April, May and June of this year, making it important for you to do your best to meet someone who can offer you a loving and faithful relationship. You should have an astrological comparison cast between a potential partner and both you and your daughter, as you have a tendency to attract cheaters.

As for your ex, he isn’t likely to remain true to any partner he hooks up with, young or old.

Q. I received an online astrological reading, and it included a Sun square Uranus transit. (Evidently these can cause accidents.) Please clarify for me how pertinent this is. Also, my husband had a similar transit. His birth date is Sept. 7, 1960, around noon. My date of birth is July 28, 1965, at 3:15 p.m.

Your husband does have his natal Uranus in an area of his chart that deals with transportation. However, it is well aspected to his natal Mars and Jupiter, so it’s highly unlikely he will suffer a major accident.

Q. I have been unhappily married to my husband of 15 years (born Jan. 30, 1966) and having an affair with a Taurus (born May 7, 1947) for the last 18 months. But he is 20 years my senior, and I can’t see us long-term! Recently I met a Scorpio who takes my breath away. I’m too afraid to divorce. I was born June 26, 1966, at 7:41 a.m.

A. My first suggestion is to set your husband free. Your comparison with him reeks of deception.

Your comparison with your Taurus is equally as bad. I believe you have been seeing your Bull to fulfill a need missing in your marriage. Without your Scorpio’s birth data, I can’t assess whether he is “the one,” but the sign falls in an area of your chart that deals with socializing and children, so the potential is present.

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