Pisces boyfriend: a fish out of water

THE LAST WORD | Troubles run deep for Virgo and her unemployed partner

My boyfriend and I are planning our future together, and he is moving in with me. After I sell my home, we will be buying one together.

He has some health issues that have prevented him from working and have caused some intimacy problems. All of this has led to emotional and mental problems for him, and now I find myself wondering if I am making a mistake.

What do you think? He was born Feb. 23, 1963 and I was born Sept. 19, 1957 at 10:40 p.m.

Virgo

A. Your comparison is decent, especially where the attraction and mental connection is concerned. However, I do not think the two of you are being completely honest with one another about your roles in this relationship.

I believe you will go ahead and move in together but, please, if this is the case, protect your assets before doing so. What he comes into the relationship with is all he takes when he leaves. When you buy another place, if it's your money fueling the purchase, I would be reluctant to share the property deed with him. You should probably hold off buying and selling until the first quarter of next year when your astrological timing is better.

Q. I've been dating a man off and on. His birth date is Oct. 28, 1984. We've hurt each other throughout the years and we have a 2-year-old son.

We love each other, but we're not sure if we're "in love" with each other. We have decided to give it a try for our son. I've put all my childish ways behind me, and I am now ready to settle down. I want to start my life with a family and home, but I'm not sure he is ready, even though he says he is.

Are we compatible or is it time to move on? My birth date is March 15, 1985 at 8:23 a.m.

Pisces

A. The comparison is good. I can see why you are attracted to one another, but there is an element of emotional deception involved regarding commitment. You may be with a Scorpio who honestly does want to be with you, but he has an adventurous, fun-loving side that he cannot give up, and this might be an issue for you in years to come.

I do believe he met his match when he met you, but I also feel you met at too young an age to have this relationship go the distance. I doubt that he will find anyone he will love as much as he does you, but having you be his one-and-only may be difficult for him to adhere to.

You both have excellent timing coming up for love over the next couple of years, and that leads me to believe you will go ahead and make a commitment to one another. Unfortunately, I do not believe that it will withstand the test of time. It will probably result in having another child together.

Q. I've recently resumed an interest in astrology and have found it to be helpful. I was born May 23, 1957 at 11:55 p.m.

Upon reflection of my life, I realized that I have never had a healthy, long-lasting relationship, though I am very loyal, committed and focused. The last relationship was with a gentleman born Aug. 24, 1961. The relationship ended abruptly and we no longer talk, however, I can't stop thinking about him. Is it possible that we will see each other again?

Seeker

A. The comparison is quite nice with your Virgo man, although some emotional issues are present. I believe part of your problem has to do with the planet Uranus (sudden change) being in an area of your chart that deals with relationships. Therefore, they usually end as quickly as they begin. In the case of your Virgo, his Sun sign was positioned negatively to your Uranus and, unfortunately, he moved on.

I can see why you haven't forgotten him and believe that he probably hasn't forgotten you either. I do not, however, feel that he will do a reversal because it isn't in his nature to admit to making a mistake.

You, on the other hand, will have good love cycles in November, January, April and May.

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