Weather Updates

What happened to the maître d?

storyidforme: 38306104
tmspicid: 14100760
fileheaderid: 6463693

Updated: November 18, 2012 6:12AM

Walking into Benoit, a 90-year-old restaurant on Paris’ Right Bank, we were greeted by Eric Bonneau.

Throughout dinner I noticed that Bonneau kept attentive eyes on the room, making sure everyone was doing their jobs. If guests even started to look like they needed anything, Bonneau took care of it, fast. By the end of dinner, we almost seemed to be friends.

Traditionally, the person who directs all restaurant activity is the maître d’ (pronounced “mater dee” here).

The maître d’ is the person responsible for direct, continuous interaction with diners. The maître d’ greets customers by name, walks them to their tables, remembers food and drink preferences, and provides tableside service/entertainment like boning fish or igniting a dish to-be-served flambé. This critical individual, liaison between dining room and kitchen, even trains staff.

With casual dining — and restaurant costs — rising, the maître d’ has slowly disappeared, deemed unnecessary by many fine restaurants. “Since we have a fairly small staff, it’s everyone’s responsibility to learn the names and preferences of regular customers so that they feel comfortable, as if they’re among family,” said Paul Fehribach of Big Jones.

Though the maître d’ may be expendable, some still believe a restaurant needs a master of ceremonies, responsible for everything.

Years ago at Chicago Gourmet, I ran into “Check, Please!” host Alpana Singh. I remember her passionately declaring, “It’s time to bring back the maître d.”

At her soon-to-be-opened the Boarding House, Singh will do just that, explaining, “Hospitality has become more important than ever. You can’t afford to take guests for granted, and making that personal connection with them goes a long way toward ensuring their happiness and ultimately their decision to return. The maître d’ inspires hosts and servers to be the best at their jobs, and he remembers those little details that make customers feel welcome and at home.”

How important are such services?

Consider how your enjoyment of a meal is influenced by restaurant staff. Good service can make food taste more delicious; bad service, less satisfying. When you feel good — which is what the maître d’ is there to ensure — it seems more likely you’ll enjoy what you’re eating.

David Hammond is an Oak Park writer and contributor to WBEZ (91.5 FM) and E-mail

© 2014 Sun-Times Media, LLC. All rights reserved. This material may not be copied or distributed without permission. For more information about reprints and permissions, visit To order a reprint of this article, click here.