Lonely after divorce, she wonders if a dog is the answer

Before you get one, remember, a pet is a big responsibility

Q. My divorce attorney has a small shaggy dog named Lilliput that first reminded me of a mop head scooting along the floor. In the beginning of seeing the lawyer, I resented this animal being allowed to sit in on meetings. Now, I couldn’t bear to be without Lilliput somewhere in the room (sometimes on my lap) while I go over the grim details of my broken marriage and what kind of financial settlement I want. I am also thinking of getting a dog as I move into a new place and begin my single life after 33 years of dogless marriage. The kids are all grown. Can you recommend a kind of dog that would be a good match for a newly single 58-year-old woman?

Colleen

A. Consider the old expression that acquiring a dog may be the only opportunity a human ever has to choose a relative. Fie on Dog Lady to foist her opinion about what could be the most important choice in your post-divorce life. Only you can answer the questions and make the choice about your new roommate. Small or large? Purebred or mutt? Older dog or puppy? Shaggy or short hair? Shelter or rescue? You have many decisions to make before you settle down with your new four-legged roomie. Just know this: It will be a lot of work. There is no such thing as a dog that doesn’t want to be walked. Some dogs need more exercise than others; all require you to haul yourself off the couch and put one foot in front of the other every day. In your current condition, that requirement is a boon. Walking the dog will carry you out of your comfort zone and into a world of new possibilities. You also must train the dog to do everything you want your pet to do — from socializing with other dogs, to walking on the leash, and maintaining proper potty manners. Lilliput’s silent supportive presence put you in the mood to get a dog. Now, gird yourself for the work ahead.

Q. I own a dog boutique. I was greatly offended by a recent column. You stated the local store is a great place to hang out and find out about foods. But then you said to do most of your specialty dog food shopping online instead of at the local store. My prices are actually lower than the chains and a person doesn’t have to pay shipping with me as he would if he buys off the Internet. Small businesses are the heart of America and we are struggling to make a living. I spend lots of time explaining the difference in dog foods and showing customers how to make an educated decision. My customers are important to me. I make sure they know their business is appreciated.

Pam

A. Thanks for sticking up for small business and “buy local” commerce.

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